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Why I Won't Date Trans Men.

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Ella Grant (1 year ago)
This green filter looked good in Final Cut so idk what happened there, but *HUGE* shoutout to Hi, I Think I'm Real who very convincingly portrayed Millennial Woes for me. Go check out his channel here: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC0lq8TJi-nuHikpkSA89SOw
María Román (6 months ago)
You're not a real woman, you're a drag queen bitch 👿
la dolce vita (10 months ago)
Whats the music you used at the end when you put the instagram, twitter gmail etc adressess up
Brian Nunez (1 year ago)
Ella Grant the sunglasses is a look
Alice Cheshire (1 year ago)
Youre always so beautiful and flawless and your voice is so cool and smooth Youre just perf
Astronomy Awareness (1 year ago)
Omg. I've never heard of you before but I think you are brilliant and beautiful. New subscriber now. Found you on London's page. Keep up the great work!
Pennyroyal Tea (6 days ago)
You and i are the same height oof
Sparky Marie (6 days ago)
Come to Brazil!
Jessie White (26 days ago)
attention attention this is not a test we are under attack Cruella Deville is speaking her mind about us and she says that we are all mentally fucking ill so please girl standing with us fight this bitch dr. Michelle she's on YouTube and she's being a bitch
Kane Shapiro (1 month ago)
Thank you for being honest and amazing!
CupHalfFild (1 month ago)
I'm a trans girl and I don't care as long as you don't have a shitty personality then I would go down for biological guys or girls and trans guys/girls and Wouldn't care of genitals.
KBJ coaster fanatics (1 month ago)
I understand you 100% I can see why if you dont date somebody with vagina it can't make you jealous because you're trans yourself but great video
Lauren Reyniers (1 month ago)
Come 2 brazil
Aurelia Gray (1 month ago)
I’m one of those people who is triggered by male genitalia. Edit- but I’m still to some extent sexually attracted to it. So really my sexuality was ruined by being trans.
Jett Jo johnson (1 month ago)
I really can't stand Riley Dennis. Ok, back the train up tranny girl. Post OP trans man are like any other good man. I get that ,you dont want to date pre op trans man . I'm gay, so no vagina I'm not dating her. So ,I relate to a point. It's your preference however , please dont just group all trans man together. Now , even if you have a vagina, I would not date you, it's my preference not to date a , Ditz.
HannibalHolmes (1 month ago)
Ella, date me or I'm triggered. Jk, I'm gay. And I wouldn't date another trans guy either. Probably.
Ó Slattarra (1 month ago)
Why you so cute? :D
chronicxswagger (1 month ago)
A trans who wont date another trans. Hahaha and expect us straight people want to date you? Umm okayy
Arthur Charbonneau (2 months ago)
why is the 2:40 / 3:05 ish mark so fucking sad Ella those eyes... you look like you are going to cry
Lana Del Rey wishes she were you.
J Allen (2 months ago)
I love how open u are literally today I was attacked by the whole gay community for liking cis gender men like ok sorry it’s just my preference
Emilies Studio (2 months ago)
Come to Calgary?...
Clair Pahlavi (2 months ago)
Smart And Funny. You aren't going to have any problems except for the extraordinary number of 'men' intimidated by beautiful women. They know they don't have a chance, they feel inadequate in your presence, so they take a bye instead of a try. Anyway, I'm guessing you're main difficulty will be in exercising your "female choice" in mate selection. Guys just squeal tires, strut, dance, boombox for your attention, all primate displays, like chimps. Chose wisely, dear.
Sheldon Adkins (2 months ago)
Just occurred to me. You look like a young Jane Fonda.
Jensen (2 months ago)
I'm a trans male and I can understand where you are coming from. I will only date cis women because I am not attracted to any form of masculinity (in anyone other than myself 🤣🤣). I also have a hard time relating to any trans men because the majority do come off as feminine. And, that leads me to befriending cis men. Basically, I'm just a man, a straight man. Sometimes it sucks to be trans when you don't fit into the "trans crowd".
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20 year old doomer (2 months ago)
Come to Brazil. By the way, you are subscribed to Izzy Nobre... The world is small.
HoH SiS (2 months ago)
Izzy Nobre é um bosta.
Doug M (2 months ago)
8 minutes to say cuz I like dick.
Teddy The Bear (2 months ago)
i get it. i’m a gay trans guy & i don’t think i could ever date another trans guy if he was further into his transition than me. i’d always be comparing myself to him.
phill mcdonald (2 months ago)
Ella, you crack me up.
Maple A. (3 months ago)
Who cares?
Mrhyimbob (3 months ago)
I'm a pansexual cis Male and I honestly find it more attractive when a trans person has the genitalia they were born with. But that's just what I think. I would still date the person either way I'd just prefer things that way
Balmain Chanel (3 months ago)
Seriously man you ugly, you forgot yours roots, And your Gender Identity. Shouldn’t even do this video on this first place. If you trying to make them feel like less a man Than because you was fuking born a Man in the first placeee *MAN*
Zaneius (3 months ago)
Could've dated a trans person, it's the person you want to be with that matters.
T Harvee (3 months ago)
This was so hateful coming from a woman who is more likely to be discriminated against than a trans man. I am not reporting this sole due to the discrimination YouTube has unethically applied to trans related YouTube content, and I don't believe they would give you a fair reaction due to their discriminatory practices. However I wanted you to know this is really hurtful to trans men. I also was surprised this got so unkind before 2:10.
ジーク (4 months ago)
I'm a trans man and I would never date another trans man. It would be too dysphoria inducing for me, plus I'm not into vagina. It's not transphobic to have preferences
Burning Dwarf (27 days ago)
I get the jist of what you are saying but femininity isnt a thing that is perse a thing you are born/stuck with. Im a cis woman and i am as feminine as a brick besides like yea it is way less preformed than ThE sNiP but there are trans men outthere that have had phalloplasty (I know, im rambling)
David Grant (4 months ago)
Ella Grant I always look forward to your videos. They have an Ellaesk unique style of humor and a simple straight forward social breakdown of your personal pitfalls. Your macro assessments of being a trans woman lightens my day and it shows that you have a good head on your shoulders. You clearly are more than just a pretty face . Good luck in all of your future endeavors. Keep it real and 'above all, always be true to thyself.' :)
Shaun Ward (4 months ago)
Purple Orphan (4 months ago)
Ya ya ik the feelz hun. Im with a cis lady. And Sumtimes my envy makes me an angry petty bitxh
lunarlena (4 months ago)
Dating preferences are only transphobic if the not liking them comes from transphobia
lunarlena (4 months ago)
I feel like it isn’t politics that makes me not want to be around a person, I think it’s world view and general disregard for human beings :/
Roxality (4 months ago)
Yes, you look like queen Lana.
cowgirl boots (4 months ago)
i agree with you, im cisgender bi female and i wouldn't date with trans women nor men bc i like cis people its great see some honesty
LilaThe Real (4 months ago)
I think I like you more than Blaire....
Grapes (4 months ago)
*[480p left the chat]*
Hallen Ahlström (5 months ago)
It's a personal preference and it's totally understandable! But... there are cis men who are VERY feminine the same way there are trans men who are VERY masculine. I just wanted to add that. :)
Julia E (5 months ago)
omg 2 seconds into the video I wanted to write a Lana comment, even your facial expressions and voice match. Lana is stunning and so are you.
I wouldn't date a trans woman.
Silent Groyper (5 months ago)
Millenial Woes?! LMAO
jjj Be (5 months ago)
your arguments are totally illogical.
I'm ftm and I wouldn't date a mtf because it just isn't right for me personally. Because of dysphoria and I'm masculine, you think ftm are feminine lmao. Does that mean I can call you masculine asf.
GrayJay Jumba (5 months ago)
It's really easy to offend people when discussing this because it's like " by stating what I like, I'm inadvertantly attacking you by listing off things you are insecure about that are unnatractive to me and maybe be reflective of how some others may feel which bothers you because you already worry people feel that way" but attraction is specific and defined and probably the most unfair and discriminatory thing you can't change about yourself or others. It's just reality that people aren't going to view you in the same context you always wish without prior knowledge of you. Male and female hormones affect brains differently, but when it comes down to personality I'd like to think it's not gendered. If youre funny, smart and kind you will be like that whether you are male or female. Your interests will be unchanged. You will be you (or you should be). When it really comes down to it, sexual preference doesnt even seem fair at all. I believe that I could love someone no matter what gender they have, my female friends may have been funny, smart and kind, and I may have great relationships with them. I have thought they were beautiful but I was never physically attracted to them. I wasn't even really emotionally attracted to them either. I've never met a girl who I was able to really fall for. If they were male, would I be able to "see them differently?" So far the answer has been no, and I've tried to remain open to swinging the other way almost on more of a matter of principal than of biological inclination. I'm very happy in a monogomous straight relationship and I love my boyfriend and hope to one day be his wife. But if he were a female I ponder, and I guess everyone does when they're in a relationship, if I still would love him the same? What if he has been a "girl" to me at first before I had developed feelings for him. I would hope that would be the case and I believe it would be. But the thing is women and men carry themselves differently, there are patterns of behavior and I think it's a learned and mimicked over and over so as much as I would like to think personalities aren't gendered, I've always been interested in male personalities and bodies and attitudes? It gives me great pause. I feel there is something 'different' about men and women that I can't define and I don't want to think I excluded women my whole life because I just can't think about them romantically but because men have lower voices and look different all of a sudden I'm interested? I believe there's something else to it and not just superficial reasoning behind why I've found more personalities I prefer romantically in men then in women. But if you are physically attracted to really masculine characteristics and someone appears androgynous or feminine instead of how they wish to be perceived you just won't see them as appealing. They're a man but your brain doesn't pick up the vibe, the characteristics of male.
BeccaRaptor94 (5 months ago)
What if you had the snip and a trans guy had phalloplasty ?
Eila P (5 months ago)
I know it's not ur personal stance since u were defending trans women who feel this way...but I don't see how it's terfy to say certain genitalia are triggering. I'm bi but I personally know some lesbians who are triggered by male genitalia and I don't think they deserve to be called terfy (even tho they do get called such)...I don't think anyone should be shamed as exclusionary for their sexuality regardless if they're trans or cis or gay or straight etc. It's just sad that one has to give the disclaimer of "i know it sounds terfy"
C Man (6 months ago)
What if a guy is fine with you preop?
Alex Szabo (6 months ago)
i haven’t watched the video yet. don’t know if i want to but i wouldn’t date a transwoman. post-op or not i just like cis-girls. like preference isn’t that bad, you don’t need a reason to have a preference.
Dru (6 months ago)
Imagine dating this fucking broad, it would be worse than auschwitz. She needs a hug
nadine brown (6 months ago)
Hate to tell you dingbat. Your options are pretty limited. Cis hetero men generally don't date trans women and your chances with cis gay men are even worse.Think Mcfly before making a clickbait video.
nadine brown (6 months ago)
Just because your trans doesn't mean you should make videos. You are banal and bland. You are not the next contrapoints
nadine brown (6 months ago)
That's fine we prefer Contrapoints
Pearl Girl (6 months ago)
hey come to brazil jk im whiter than sour cream
Dime9764 (6 months ago)
I'm pretty ordinary guy with a bit of a tummy but I would 100% date you :P
isabel kat (6 months ago)
Clicked because you look like Lana. Stayed because oh my fucking god i love you
Azazel The Wuffy Dragon (6 months ago)
No matter whether all *that* is padding or not you are *stunning*
brettdumain (7 months ago)
I know this is "old", but can i just say my penis is super confused right now??
Rae lee (7 months ago)
Being transgender my partner love to date with me we always have good time together whenever we meet we go out for dinner, dance and guess what also very actively we both are involve sexually & reaching organism which i got it from here http://readmore.fun/youtubellarant
Alex Simpson (7 months ago)
I personally would never knowingly date a transwoman, I'll be friends with one and all that, but dating one would be a little wierd... like having "she was a dude" in the back of my mind, if they haven't had surgery it's clearly a little strange, and the fact that natural reproduction is entirely out of the question sorta kills it for me too
C. R (7 months ago)
Don't worry. My 5'3" self wouldn't want to date you. And I don't mind when women are taller than me. Can't magically become taller. Already know I'm short and am already reminded regularly about the form of my body by others.
Sammy Pater (7 months ago)
It’s so weird. The longer I watch the less and less you look like a woman. Like in the beginning I was like ...oh wait... you’re trans? Cool. However the longer I look the less you look like a woman. It’s weird
Chris Harrison (7 months ago)
*sigh* Still hard to believe you are 17. I am older so not much of a chance.
Dom MG (7 months ago)
It's not Brazil but it has the same first two letters, the same vowels and the number of letters, will it do? Stay gorgeous and wonderful Ella!
large homo (7 months ago)
wait your trans I never would've guessed that, good for you I'm very happy for you
AISLING LYONS (7 months ago)
excellent sean connery impression
Aidan Truax (7 months ago)
Ella you're the biggest internal conflict for me lmao. Cuz you're hot as hell, but I mean no snip-snop.
Punkkumies (7 months ago)
you look like shit
Kevin Sundelin (8 months ago)
I always forget that you're a trans woman, because you really just look and act sound like a woman. Anyways, you make some really good points and I completely understand. I've always been trying to say that it's not transphobic to have preferences, but people are...people.
Alana Foster (8 months ago)
I'm a straight female but I am still open if you want to go to Brazil
Spookis Ghostly (8 months ago)
I like the Peene
Pulp Girl (8 months ago)
Clicked to comment on her Lana Del Rey look but was called out immediately
Jace vonBitch (8 months ago)
i have a question: are you straight/what is your sexuality (if its too personal you don't have to answer!)
Joanna (8 months ago)
Omg i would never guess you're trans 😅
Just Shy (8 months ago)
So why if a straight man doesen't want to date trans women he's transphobic ?
Just Shy (8 months ago)
@Ella Grant Some say so...
Ella Grant (8 months ago)
...he isn’t?
Lauren C (8 months ago)
I’m Bi but I don’t think I’d date a trans person, she’s really pretty but idk it just doesn’t attract me. Also most are liberal and I’m not at all, and it’s just a lot. Like surgery, hormones, etc.
Kohen Keesing (9 months ago)
I was taken aback that you were only 17 at the time of making this video. You give off an aura of someone far more mature than that in most of the appearances I've seen from you. Then again I can only base my idea of 17 year olds on the ones I know now or when I myself was 17 and most of them were/are retarded so... *shrug*
baby boy (9 months ago)
it just kinda doesnt make sense because how can you say that there isnt a single trans man out there whos not more feminine than you, taller than you and doesnt have a vagina?
Luna Tick (9 months ago)
I just subscribed to you and I had no idea you were transgender, you're absolutely beautiful if you don't mind me saying! I love your style!!
Rin (9 months ago)
k. was going into this video with an open mind but unfortunately her explanations were more of the same. trans men are a diverse group of men just as trans women are a diverse group of women. not all trans men are short. not all trans men are feminine. not all trans men have vaginas. like seriously...take a moment and consider that u might have a prejudice
Monique Heart’s laugh (9 months ago)
You are so *classy* i can't even
saintly (9 months ago)
Forgive me if I'm taking this wrong, but for a video titled "Why I won't date Trans Men," a statement like "it's a bit terfy to be abject to male genitalia," just seems a bit lesbophobic. I hate using that word, but it does seem like a double standard.
Ella Grant (9 months ago)
Liz M (9 months ago)
Your hair is just stunning btw
TrishaJean Holt (9 months ago)
"I'm 5'8" so I'll take what I can get" meeeee
Rip Pippin (9 months ago)
Hey, you kinda look like Lana Del Rey. >:3
DutchM (10 months ago)
4:07 wait you put a meditteranian guy as a stereotypical alt-right white person? that seems odd.
Nick Torok (10 months ago)
FTM: I'm 6 foot 1 inch Ì have a dick I'm not more fem than you *Research your bias.
C. R (10 months ago)
I'm dysphoric about my own vagina. But I'm still attracted to women.
Qwomlee (10 months ago)
I’m female, have broader shoulders than the average man, small waist and hips, long legs and I guess I’m also a tomboy. Although I have hair much like you. My boyfriend is the opposite of me in the sense he’s tiny and has a very feminine build and isn’t as macho as me. So I guess we balance each other out? Haha.
Alex Jones Fan Page (10 months ago)
Just say that you like dick and trans men don't have one. that's all you need to say lol
Renata LP7 (10 months ago)
come to brazil
conny wilmering (10 months ago)
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChS2n1NiyC2BbLIIW8c2k2Q?view_as=subscriber --- ich mache auch videos . mfg eure conny
Sha Ron MAX (10 months ago)
lol I like your sense of humor and I think your gorgeous
x Z (10 months ago)
I transitioned a long time ago. My sexuality changed a lot through the years. I'm bi and and I'm really only ok with dating other bi people. It helps a lot with the whole genital thing.
Karen Lamb (10 months ago)
Disphoria squared. 😂
Mady Taylor (10 months ago)
I agree on the not dating until I get surgery. I'm lucky that I already had top surgery and started T and will be getting a hysterectomy this November so I've done everything except get rid of my vagina and be able to pee out of my "dick". And that's all I want. But I have to wait a year until after I graduate.

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